Principal's Remarks
I was talking recently with a parent about how they were struggling to fit in everything they needed to for their children. There was school, family commitments, church, afterschool swimming, weekend sport, homework . . . . and the list went on. Only a few days later, I was having a conversation with Mr Campbell, our PE teacher, about some research he had been reading out of Finland on the importance of “free play” breaks in improving learning outcomes for children. I had been tossing all of these thoughts around in my head when I came across this article by Dr Jodi Richardson on “Balancing Extra-curricular Activities for Flourishing Kids.” I am going to share it with you as I think it is provocative reading for us as parents and educators.
I would also like to let you know that I will be taking some long service leave for the last three weeks of this term and the first three weeks of next term to spend some time with family. Mr Davis and Miss Bernoth will steer the ship while I am gone with some assistance from our current and previous Directors of Education for Prescott Schools SA, Mr Steve Cowley and Mr Gavin Williams.
“Busyness seems to have become a way of life for modern families. It’s unlikely you’ll ever hear a parent talk of having plenty of free time on their hands. Unfortunately, that’s a statement unlikely to be heard from a lot of modern-day kids either.
The afternoons on family calendars are increasingly filling up with organised after-school activities, and in families with multiple children the logistics of keeping up with all this can be complicated. The strain of ferrying children back and forth, often in different directions, saps families of energy, resources and time.
We have great intentions
Recent research from the United Kingdom found that the desire for children to succeed is a strong driver for many parents, sometimes causing them to load their children up with extra-curricular activities. While the intentions are good, the method of keeping kids busy is probably questionable.
Other reasons for encouraging extra-curricular activities include: giving kids the best start in life, making friends, keeping fit and healthy, developing interests and preventing boredom. Anecdotal evidence suggests the findings are similar in Australia.
The cost of busyness
We live at a time where rates of mental illness, particularly anxiety, are climbing. One in seven Australian children have a diagnosed mental illness. That’s three in an average classroom. Many more go undiagnosed.
Rushing to activities, late nights and stressed parents aren’t the conditions for family members to enjoy flourishing mental health. Too many organised activities detract from time to hang out with friends, to comfortably complete homework tasks, to spend time with family, to get bored and, importantly, to simply play.
Free play is serious business
Author and research professor of psychology Dr Peter Gray attributes the rise in anxiety, depression, suicide and narcissism among children to the decline of play. Unstructured play is vital for the healthy development of children and teenagers. Through play kids learn to interact with others, develop physical skills necessary for school success and gain confidence they need to interact with peers.
How much is too much?
Some children can cope with busy schedules, while others flounder. As a rule of thumb, if your child or young person is struggling in any of these three areas: i) mental health, ii) schoolwork and studies, iii) their participation in family-life then it may be time to reduce their extra-curricular load.
Choosing the activities to omit from a schedule can be tricky, as your child or young person may have a different motivation for each. In short, each activity can be ‘the one they love.’ Here’s a good question to ask your child or young person that can make decision-making easier:
‘If all of your after-school activities were cancelled, which one(s) would you plead with me to re-enrol you in?’
Their answers will reveal a great deal about their commitment to each activity. Ideally, kids should be choosing extra-curricular activities that nourish them rather than cause anxiety and stress. Aim for two activity-free nights each week so that your child or young person can meet their study and family commitments.
The same principle for balance holds true for weekends. Make sure your kids enjoy some time free from structured activity, so they can refresh and recharge, ready for the week of school that lays ahead.” (Richardson, 2019)
Have a great week with your kids,
Mark B