We are in our final week of the term, PPN Family. So many good learning experiences have taken place, so much adjustment and embracing of newness for our students. With such a busy program, school life seems to zoom past so quickly. If we aren’t intentional, we can miss the joy of being in the moment with our kids. Just this week, there have been several times when I have been in a real hurry to “deal with” a situation that I almost didn’t hear a child call my name because they wanted to share something that they had experienced or brought from home for show and tell, or to tell me about their wonderful camp experience. You see, I get so wrapped up in getting things done and the speed of demands that I sometimes forget to slow down, listen and be there.
The kids will be around a little bit more over the next couple of weeks, and I would really encourage you to take some time to slow down and just be there with them. If you are anything like me, you struggle with the concept of being idle, of not actively ticking things off the list or that I am somehow shirking my adult life responsibilities if I am spending time with the kids and grandkids or even time in stillness and quiet spiritual reflection.
I read a short piece recently titled, “The courageous act of stillness”. The writer reflected that in the hustle, bustle and rush of our lives right now, it actually takes courage for us to step away from the demands of the “to-do” list or busy work and life schedule because busyness is seen as a badge of honour. I am not advocating laziness, but I am endorsing having the courage to see sitting in the stillness or being with our kids and teenagers as a wise, valid and profitable use of our time. The article concluded with this thought, “I used to think that to be still was a battle won through effort. Warring against the barrage of busyness, resisting the pressure to perform, fighting against the fear of appearing lazy. But I am learning that being still is not a battle won through struggle. Rather, it’s that tender white flag of surrender. Laying down all of my weapons and my armoury of self-protection. Relinquishing the urge to strive. Waving high that white flag of surrender, is a very brave act indeed.” (Choat, 2019)
Be brave during this holiday break, and take time to be with our kids and still. The benefits are wide ranging for all.
Mark B

“Are you weary, carrying a heavy burden? Then come to me. I will refresh your life, for I am your oasis. Simply join your life with mine. Learn my ways and discover that I’m gentle, humble, easy to please. You will find refreshment and rest in me.” Matthew 11:28–29