I was spraying some weeds the other day and was reminded of something I often see, but seldom notice. Plants and trees can be really determined to grow. Have you ever noticed how plants and weeds spring up in the tiniest crevices of the paving or concrete around the place?

I enjoy spending time in the Australian outback and I am constantly amazed at the ability of trees to grow in a tiny crack in a rock in the most inhospitable situations.

Those situations speak to me about the value of determination in our lives, and the importance of developing determination in our children. I quite like the American Psychological Association definition of determination as, “a mental attitude characterized by a strong commitment to achieving a particular goal despite barriers and hardships.”

One way we can help develop this with our kids is by taking examples from their own experiences when they find something challenging. That may be in the academic area, or friendships or sport, or family . . . any part of life really, and helping them work out ways of working towards a goal in spite of how challenging it might be. It could be that we share events from our own lives or other family members' experiences. Another way is to read stories to them of people who have shown determination and then discuss it. If you would like a place to start, try googling the story of Derek Redmond in the 400 metre semi-final at the 1992 Barcelona Olympics.

The Bible is full of wonderful references to determination in our lives, I think because it is such an important part of how we can live our best.

“You've all been to the stadium and seen the athletes race. Everyone runs; one wins. Run to win. All good athletes train hard. They do it for a gold medal that tarnishes and fades. You're after one that's gold eternally. I don't know about you, but I'm running hard for the finish line. I'm giving it everything I've got. No sloppy living for me! I'm staying alert and in top condition. I'm not going to get caught napping, telling everyone else all about it and then missing out myself.” 1 Corinthians 9:24-27

I hope the school break for the next couple of weeks provides some wonderful family time and opportunities for time spent with your kids.

Mark B