Term 2 is drawing to a close and there are many things I have appreciated about it, but one thing that has stood out for me is the value of having our families involved in our school activities again.

Our Sport’s Days were highlights in this for me. Last Thursday, at our Upper Sport’s Day, I watched as parents came to cheer on their kids and be a part of their school lives, and my heart was lifted. I know there were some parents who even took a trip during their lunch break at work to make that happen. That is a fantastic message sent to the children. I understand balancing all the demands of family, work and life is difficult, but sending a message of love, care, support, and involvement to our kids is vitally important.

Sometimes the messages we send to the people around us get a little confusing in the cut and thrust of life. What we think in our head, doesn’t always come out the way we intend, and we have to go back and try again. Check out these signs.

However, if we are really committed to sending the right messages to our children (that they are loved, that they are valued, that they are enough, that we are here for them), and staying curious and dedicated to ensuring they hear and understand our messages and intentions, we are giving a very special gift.

The school break can provide some excellent opportunities for message sending and receiving with our children. Why not be intentional and make specific times, and plan specific activities that allow this to happen? You’ll be glad you did, and so will they.

Have a great break with your kids,

Mark B